HOW A SITUATION BECOMES A PROBLEM?

How a situation becomes a problem?

Each and every moment, life passes through difficult situations.

Every individual has different threshold to face that situation.

Difficult situation is bound to create energy of tension& anxiety in mind because we are gifted with an instinct to survive.

An instinct to survive helps an individual to preserve his life by attending that situation through his unique response to that situation.

IF energy of anxiety and tension ,build up during difficult situation can be channelized properly, that situation leaves  great understanding behind otherwise every situation seems a problem.

Energy of anxiety and tension

Should be directed towards “periphery”

And

MUST be prevented to travel towards a series of thoughts of future

e.g

If there is a diseased state, energy of anxiety and tension is bound to be created out of natural instinct of survival.

DONT FIGHT WITH IT, ACCEPT IT. LET THIS ANXIETY BE THERE.

NOW, BE CONSCIOUS

1.

THIS ENERGY MUST NOT TRAVEL TOWARDS THOUGHT PROCESS OF FUTURE.”

REMAIN ALERT” THAT YOU ARE NOT THINKING OF FUTURE COMPLICATIONS.

NOW

2

LET THIS ENERGY BE DIRECTED TOWARDS BODY BY PROVIDING BEST MEDICAL CARE ETC.

DON’T ESCAPE THIS SITUATION. DON’T BE MISER FOR BODY

GOLDEN RULE

APPLY BOTH 1& 2 SIMULTANEOUSLY

.

 SUMMARY

TAKE MAXIMUM CARE OF OUTSIDE

AND

SIMULATEOUSLY

REMAIN CARE FREE INSIDE

IF ONLY ONE STEP IS DONE, RESULT WOULD NOT BE THERE

IF” NO STEP” IS TAKEN CONSCIOUSLY, 

EVERY SITUATION BECOMES A "PROBLEM".

Worry & Care

Worry & Care

WE worry about diseases of our “body” rather than” caring “for health.

Worry arises due to fear of death.

OUT of this fear, what our mind does for anything is- worry not care.

ONCE, we start worrying about diseases of our body, we are unable to care it

“Worry blocks care”

AND

IF “body” is not provided care at proper time, the causes of genuine worry starts happening.

SO

BE AWARE AT FIRST STEP!

DO YOU HAVE A HABIT OF WORRY OR CARE?

Remedies

1.   Be conscious about you worrying attitude

And

2.  The same energy of “worry” becomes "caring attitude"

SCHOOL & HOME WORK

SCHOOL & HOME WORK

Parents send their kids to school because every parent is not capable to educate their children at home. So parents have to send their kids to school.

A Kid returns home from school with home work

Parents send their kids to school for school work and teachers send kid back to their home with home work.

DEFINITION OF SANDWICH

A SANDWICH IS A STUFF BETWEEN TWO SIMILAR THINGS I.E BREAD PIECES

A STUDENT BECOMES A SANDWICH BETWEEN TWO WORKS, 

HOME WORKS 

AND 

SCHOOL WORKS

A new experiment must be launched where students should not be permitted to study at home after school.

THEY should be punished if found studying after school

RESULT

A healthy, rebellious and intelligent being would emerge from a student.

TRY IT. 100% RESULT

EMPTINESS - THE WAY TO REMAIN FILLED

Law of emptiness

The way to remain always filled with anything is to keep emptying the thing with which you want to remain filled.

Emptiness is not depleted or deprived state.

On the contrary, depleted or deprived state comes when we are not obeying the above law.

Sea is a vast emptiness that is why sea remains always filled.

DECISIONS ARE ALWAYS WRONG

DECISIONS ARE ALWAYS WRONG

We sometimes find ourselves at middle of square to decide our direction of life.

Choice of one direction limits us to travel in another three directions.

Four eyes are needed to simultaneously see in all four directions otherwise accident would happen from any direction. As four eyes are not gifted to humans, life becomes an accident.  

ALTHOUGH four eyes are not gifted to us but foresight is gifted to us

Foresight is possible if one could see through his “third eye” initiated by some awakened.

DECISIONS ARE ALWAYS WRONG

VISION IS ALWAYS CORRECT

REAL UNDERSTANDING

REAL UNDERSTANDING

A man of real understanding understands that why people misunderstand him and he doesn't care to make anyone understand about misunderstanding around him.

A Man of no understanding doesn't understand that people don’t want to understand him and  he still wants to make everyone understand about "no" misunderstanding around him.

RELATIONSHIP AND MEDITATION

RELATIONSHIP AND MEDITATION

Cause of strained relationship

I don’t understand others and other do not understand me.

Why I don’t understand other?

Because I don’t understand myself

I am closer to myself than anyone else in this world. 

If I don’t understand the easiest and closer person i.e. me, myself then how it can be expected that I would understand other who is at distance from me?)

What is to know about myself whom I don’t know?

My inner self who regulates my thoughts, emotions and intellect

BUT

What is the need to know our inner self?

No need to know inner self if one wishes to live hellish life but 

there is need to know if one feels his life disturbing and disgusting.

How understanding of oneself helps to understand other?

It helps indirectly. When I understand myself, I come to know about mystery of inner self. At a matter state, I am incomplete half. I have another polar opposite half which is hidden part of me. If I am male, there is female as my hidden half and vice verse. So when I completely understand my first visible half, ultimately that understanding goes to hidden polar opposite part of myself.

And

When I understand my opposite polar inner half then I understand my polar opposite outer half i.e. wife, husband, friend and so on

In this way I understand other’s feelings, emotions etc

HOW TO UNDERSTAND MYSELF?

CLOSE EYES

JUST SEE INSIDE

BODY

THOUGHTS

EMOTIONS

And so on

THIS IS KNOWN AS “MEDITATION”

MARRIAGE –A TUG OF WAR

MARRIAGE –A TUG OF WAR

Life has a rule of” flow”

Based on above law, marriage was devised  in which girl was trained psychological from her birth so that  she could adapt in boy’s family and boy was trained in a way so that he could stay with his parents.

(It created a type of flow. Every girl was vacating and in a way creating a space for other girl to come and occupy her place and space)

BUT

In modernized world, there is no possibility of girl being trained in a primitive way hence now she can’t adapt in a new place after marriage. She is not able to vacate physically and psychologically, the place occupied by her ,for another girl ,coming to her place as a bride.

So

Now, Marriage has become of tug of war instead of a flow.

Two parties of Tug of war are

Girl is between her parents and Husband’s family

Boy is between his parents and wife.

Solution is to

1. Allow freedom to both boy and girl from their parent’s control after marriage.

2. New community system should be made for taking care of  parents and the new born.

TUG OF WAR WOULD BECOME A FLOW OF LOVE