MARRIAGE –A TUG OF WAR

MARRIAGE –A TUG OF WAR

Life has a rule of” flow”

Based on above law, marriage was devised  in which girl was trained psychological from her birth so that  she could adapt in boy’s family and boy was trained in a way so that he could stay with his parents.

(It created a type of flow. Every girl was vacating and in a way creating a space for other girl to come and occupy her place and space)

BUT

In modernized world, there is no possibility of girl being trained in a primitive way hence now she can’t adapt in a new place after marriage. She is not able to vacate physically and psychologically, the place occupied by her ,for another girl ,coming to her place as a bride.

So

Now, Marriage has become of tug of war instead of a flow.

Two parties of Tug of war are

Girl is between her parents and Husband’s family

Boy is between his parents and wife.

Solution is to

1. Allow freedom to both boy and girl from their parent’s control after marriage.

2. New community system should be made for taking care of  parents and the new born.

TUG OF WAR WOULD BECOME A FLOW OF LOVE