Thursday 21 August 2014

EMPTINESS - THE WAY TO REMAIN FILLED


Law of emptiness
The way to remain always filled with anything is to keep emptying the thing with which you want to remain filled.

Emptiness is not depleted or deprived state.
On the contrary, depleted or deprived state comes when we are not obeying the above law.

Sea is a vast emptiness that is why sea remains always filled.

DECISIONS ARE ALWAYS WRONG

DECISIONS ARE ALWAYS WRONG


We sometimes find ourselves at middle of square to decide our direction of life.

Choice of one direction limits us to travel in another three directions.
Four eyes are needed to simultaneously see in all four directions otherwise accident would happen from any direction. As four eyes are not gifted to humans, life becomes an accident.  


ALTHOUGH four eyes are not gifted to us but foresight is gifted to us
Foresight is possible if one could see through his “third eye” initiated by some awakened.

DECISIONS ARE ALWAYS WRONG

VISION IS ALWAYS CORRECT

REAL UNDERSTANDING

REAL UNDERSTANDING


A man of real understanding understands that why people misunderstand him and he doesn't care to make anyone understand about misunderstanding around him.



A Man of no understanding doesn't understand that people don’t want to understand him and  he still wants to make everyone understand about "no" misunderstanding around him.

Wednesday 20 August 2014

RELATIONSHIP AND MEDITATION


RELATIONSHIP AND MEDITATION

Cause of strained relationship
I don’t understand others and other do not understand me.










Why I don’t understand other?
Because I don’t understand myself

I am closer to myself than anyone else in this world. 


If I don’t understand the easiest and closer person i.e. me, myself then how it can be expected that I would understand other who is at distance from me?)




What is to know about myself whom I don’t know?
My inner self who regulates my thoughts, emotions and intellect

BUT

What is the need to know our inner self?
No need to know inner self if one wishes to live hellish life but 
there is need to know if one feels his life disturbing and disgusting.


How understanding of oneself helps to understand other?
It helps indirectly. When I understand myself, I come to know about mystery of inner self. At a matter state, I am incomplete half. I have another polar opposite half which is hidden part of me. If I am male, there is female as my hidden half and vice verse. So when I completely understand my first visible half, ultimately that understanding goes to hidden polar opposite part of myself.

And
When I understand my opposite polar inner half then I understand my polar opposite outer half i.e. wife, husband, friend and so on
In this way I understand other’s feelings, emotions etc

HOW TO UNDERSTAND MYSELF?
CLOSE EYES
JUST SEE INSIDE
BODY
THOUGHTS
EMOTIONS
And so on
THIS IS KNOWN AS “MEDITATION





Tuesday 19 August 2014

MARRIAGE –A TUG OF WAR



MARRIAGE –A TUG OF WAR



Life has a rule of” flow

Based on above law, marriage was devised  in which girl was trained psychological from her birth so that  she could adapt in boy’s family and boy was trained in a way so that he could stay with his parents.

(It created a type of flow. Every girl was vacating and in a way creating a space for other girl to come and occupy her place and space)

BUT

In modernized world, there is no possibility of girl being trained in a primitive way hence now she can’t adapt in a new place after marriage. She is not able to vacate physically and psychologically, the place occupied by her ,for another girl ,coming to her place as a bride.


So
Now, Marriage has become of tug of war instead of a flow.

Two parties of Tug of war are
Girl is between her parents and Husband’s family
Boy is between his parents and wife.
Solution is to
1. Allow freedom to both boy and girl from their parent’s control after marriage.
2. New community system should be made for taking care of  parents and the new born.
TUG OF WAR WOULD BECOME A FLOW OF LOVE

Monday 18 August 2014

“ROUTINE” and “RHYTHM”



ROUTINE” and “RHYTHM


Routine” is of “two” types
1.  Routine



2.  No routine



“MIND” IS AFRAID OF LOOSING ITS “ROUTINE” AND ALSO IT’S “NO ROUTINE


But life is NOT a “routine”, it is a “rhythm

A “rhythm” is a “balance” of routine and no routine.
Once life is trapped in only routines or no routines, its rhythm is lost.
ONCE RHYTHM IS LOST, LIFE IS “DEAD” BEFORE “DEATH”.