Tuesday 19 November 2013

HOW WE SPOIL OUR RELATIONSHIPS!

HOW WE SPOIL  OUR RELATIONSHIPS!

WE HAVE ONE PLACE AND TWO SPACES IN OUR LIFE.
ONE PLACE: FOR SELF
TWO SPACES
1.  SPACE OF OTHER.

2.           SPACE FOR OTHERS.


1.   WHEN WE TRY TO FILL PLACE OF SELF WITH OTHER OR OTHERSWHICH IS IMPOSSIBLE, WE FEEL DISTURBED WITH PRESENCE OF OTHER.



2. WHEN OTHER IS FELT LIKE A DISTURBANCE, WE TEND TO AVOID & NEGLECT HIM.


4. WHEN WE NEGLECT AND AVOID OTHER OR OTHERS, THEIR SPACES INSIDE US REMAIN VACANT & UNOCCUPIED.

 
4. WHEN SPACE OF OTHER &SPACE FOR OTHERS REMAIN VACANT IN US, WE FEEL INCOMPLETE & CONSTRICTED.



SO, THE BASIC CAUSE OF EVERY SPOILED RELATIONSHIP IS AN ATTEMPT TO FILL PLACE OF SELF WITH PRESENCE OF OTHER OR OTHERS.

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