PARENTS SUCCESSFUL ROLE IN KIDS/STUDENTS FAILURE

PARENTS SUCCESSFUL ROLE IN KIDS/STUDENTS FAILURE

EGO WANTS  FOCUS OF OTHERS

FOCUS/ ATTENTION IS NEEDED BY EVERYONE

E.G

KIDS NEED ATTENTION OF MOTHER

MOTHER NEEDS ATTENTION OF KIDS ‘S FATHER

WHY?

WE FEEL LIFELESS WITHOUT ATTENTION OF OTHER

AND

NOBODY WANTS TO LIVE A  LIFELESS LIFE

SO 

TO FEEL ALIVENESS

OTHER’S ATTENTION IS NEEDED

ATTENTION BECOMES FOOD OF EGO

 AND

ATTENTION GOES ONLY AT EXTREMES POINTS

E.G

OUR ATTENTION GOES EITHER TO DYING OR TO NEWBORN

IN SCHOOLS,TWO EXTREME TYPES OF STUDENTS GET ATTENTIONS

1.          STUDENT WHO STAND FIRST OR ATTAIN SOME LEVELS

2.          STUDENTS WHO GET FAILED.

A) THOSE THAT ATTAIN SOME LEVELS ARE REWARDED AND HENCE GET ATTENTION.

B)  STUDENTS WHO FAIL 

ALSO GET SPECIAL ATTENTION OF TEACHERS AND PARENTS BECAUSE PARENTS AND TEACHERS TAKE EVERY CARE TO MAKE THEM SUCCESSFUL.

BUT IN THIS CARE, KIDS ARE FEEDED WITH SPECIAL ATTENTION.

AS NOBODY WANTS TO LOSE OTHER’S ATTENTION AND FEEL LIFELESS.

HENCE, STUDENTS WHO GET ATTENTION BECAUSE THEY HAVE FAILED, WOULD REPEAT THEIR FAILURE TO GET THIS ATTENTION AGAIN.

“FAILURE AND ATTENTION” GET ASSOCIATED IN THEIR MINDS

 SO, ALL EFFORTS TO BRING THEM OUT OF FAILURE 

WOULD FAIL.