HOW WE SPOIL OUR RELATIONSHIPS!

HOW WE SPOIL  OUR RELATIONSHIPS!

WE HAVE ONE PLACE AND TWO SPACES IN OUR LIFE.

ONE PLACE: FOR SELF

TWO SPACES

1.  SPACE OF OTHER.

2.           SPACE FOR OTHERS.

1.   WHEN WE TRY TO FILL PLACE OF SELF WITH OTHER OR OTHERS, WHICH IS IMPOSSIBLE, WE FEEL DISTURBED WITH PRESENCE OF OTHER.

2. WHEN OTHER IS FELT LIKE A DISTURBANCE, WE TEND TO AVOID & NEGLECT HIM.

4. WHEN WE NEGLECT AND AVOID OTHER OR OTHERS, THEIR SPACES INSIDE US REMAIN VACANT & UNOCCUPIED.

 

4. WHEN SPACE OF OTHER &SPACE FOR OTHERS REMAIN VACANT IN US, WE FEEL INCOMPLETE & CONSTRICTED.

SO, THE BASIC CAUSE OF EVERY SPOILED RELATIONSHIP IS AN ATTEMPT TO FILL PLACE OF SELF WITH PRESENCE OF OTHER OR OTHERS.

HOW TO CREATE REAL RELATIONSHIPS?

WE HAVE ONE PLACE AND TWO SPACES IN OUR LIFE.

ONE PLACE: 

FOR SELF ONLY

TWO SPACES

1.  SPACE OF OTHER ONLY.

2.           SPACE FOR OTHERS.

 

1. IF WE FILL PLACE OF SELF WITH SELF, SPACE OF OTHER GETS VISIBLE.

2. WHEN SPACE OF OTHER GETS VISIBLE, WE OFFER SPACE OF OTHER TO OTHER.

3. WHEN OTHER FILLS SPACE, ONE FEELS OBLIGED AND THANKFUL

4. WHEN SPACE OF OTHER GETS FILLED, SPACE FOR OTHERS GETS VISIBLE.

5. WHEN SPACE FOR OTHERS  GETS FILLED BY OTHERS, ONE FEELS COMPLETE, FILLED AND SPACIOUS.

SO, EVERY BEAUTIFUL RELATIONSHIP FIRST REQUIRES FILLING OF PLACE OF SELF WITH SELF

AND

FILLING OF PLACE OF SELF WITH SELF IS POSSIBLE ONLY AFTER REALIZING SELF

LIFE - A RHYTHM NOT REGULARITY

Life is a rhythm not regularity.

Rhythm includes regularity and irregularity.

If life becomes only regularity, it is a blast which yields death.

If life becomes only irregularity, it is collapse which yields death.

If life becomes a rhythm ,it throbs & pulsates

REMAIN FILLED

Empty & remain filled

When you get over filled, refill the source from where you got over filled.

In this way, you would always remain empty, never spill & remain always filled

LIBERATION, FREEDOM & DEPENDENCY

We are liberated in some dimension of life.

We have freedom & independence in some directions of life.

We need help, support & assistance in some areas of life.

If all these dimensions, directions and areas are recognized,we come to know that we are LIBERATION